How to create a challenge mindset
Sport and exercise psychologist, Rhonda Cohen, shares five winning steps to achieving your goals
1. Confront your limiting voice. โI canโt; Iโll never be able to; I want to give up.โ Record yourself when you say something limiting, so you learn to recognise, and talk yourself out of, a restricting mindset.
2. Remember that this is your choice. Put a hair band or bracelet on your wrist as a constant reminder that you are in control of what you choose to do. Alternatively, wear a band on your left wrist for an hour if you find yourself making a limiting choice, and move it to your right wrist when you are doing something challenging.
3. Imagine yourself achieving your goals to reinforce healthy habits. Write a list of positive thoughts and visualise these statements. โIโll feel good; my family will be proud; Iโll treat myself toโฆโ
4. Record the positives, too. When you experience an emotional high, record yourself saying, or even singing, your feelings of determination. โIโll feel braver; Iโll run less risk of illness; Iโll be happier.โ Play these before every challenge session.
5. Reward yourself. Turn a photo of what you want to achieve into a 50-piece โjigsaw puzzleโ. Put in one piece every time you stick to a new behaviour and watch your dream grow. Treat yourself when it is finished.
Rhonda Cohen is author of Sport Psychology: The Basics Optimising Human Performance (Bloomsbury Sport, ยฃ22).