But I want it now!
Oliver Burkeman tells us how to prioritise when everything feels urgent

The idea
It might just be the oldest time-management tip in existence: to get the right things done, learn to prioritise. Label your to-do list with As, Bs and Cs, or use coloured felt-tip pens to separate the must-dos from the maybesโฆ but itโs not always this easy to prioritise.
Too often, everything feels important and, if youโve simply got too much to do, prioritising wonโt magically make things better. Above all, we are emotional beings, with energy levels that ebb and fl ow. So, when it all seems urgent and you canโt decide what to do, use these more human rules of thumb instead.
How to make it happen
Alternate minor jobs with hard work:
Begin with a small task that will feel satisfying to cross off, then spend some time tackling the big project youโve been avoiding, then another small taskโฆ this way, you are effectively using one kind of task as a reward for the other, keeping your motivation high.
Aim for โtwo awesome hoursโ:
In his book Two Awesome Hours (HarperCollins, ยฃ15.99), neuroscience writer Josh Davis argues that itโs best to give up trying to be ultra-productive all day. Instead, aim for two hours, ideally in the morning, when youโre rested and wonโt be interrupted. Do what matters most, then keep lesser tasks for when your energy is fading.
Admit defeat:
Depressing as it sounds, itโs actually hugely empowering to face the truth: there definitely wonโt be time to do everything youโd like to get done. Dropping a couple of balls isnโt a crime; itโs inevitable. Accept that, and youโll be far better placed to decide which ones you can afford to drop.
Oliver Burkeman is author of โThe Antidote: Happiness For People Who Canโt Stand Positive Thinkingโ (Canongate, ยฃ8.99).
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