Why my ADHD means I’m brilliant in a crisis — and burned out by ‘business as usual’
For adults with ADHD, high-stakes moments can bring brilliance — but routine tasks can feel impossible. Discover how the hidden “ADHD tax” and constant mental load reveal the cost of living in a world not built for you. Most people know ADHD is associated with distraction, impulsivity, and difficulty with everyday tasks. But what few […]
Yes, I’ve read your message. No, I haven’t responded. ADHD, communication, and rejection
ADHD and texting don’t mix well. Missed replies and the dread of those blue ticks can trigger a spiral, especially when rejection sensitivity kicks in. Here’s why communication feels so overwhelming with ADHD — and how to manage it without the guilt. Those two little blue ticks. You see them and instantly ask yourself: “They’ve […]
I’m worn out, but my mind is racing: Why ADHD makes sleep harder than you think
From spinning thoughts to disrupted routines and late-evening energy surges, ADHD and sleep can interact in ways that make switching off impossible. Maybe you were scrolling until 12:30am. Maybe one more episode of Bridgerton turned into three. Or maybe your brain simply refused to switch off. For people with ADHD, restless nights aren’t just occasional — racing […]
Chaos, mum guilt, and unexpected joy: What parenting with ADHD really feels like
Parenting with ADHD can be exhausting, and mum guilt is unavoidable. But with self-compassion and practical strategies, the chaos can become creativity, connection, and joy. “Oh no — it’s World Book Day. Or Non-Uniform Day. Or a training day. I’m so sorry, darling, Mummy forgot… again.” Parenting can feel like being the personal assistant to […]
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Is this burnout… or could it actually be ADHD?
ADHD burnout can leave people feeling exhausted even after rest. Discover how cycles of hyperfocus, stress and over-functioning can drain the nervous system and lead to emotional and physical crashes. Competitive tiredness is a thing. We’re all worn out these days, right? But what if your exhaustion isn’t quite the same as everyone else’s? If you […]
When you don’t fit the stereotype: why ADHD in women can look different
Often overlooked and misunderstood, ADHD in women can look very different from the stereotype. Many women with ADHD appear organised and socially capable while quietly struggling with focus, fatigue and internal overwhelm. “I used to be so good at friendships. I had so many complex coping mechanisms that made me a good friend,” laughs Sam […]
I think I might have ADHD – but is it worth getting a diagnosis?
An adult ADHD diagnosis can transform how someone understands their past, present and future, replacing blame with clarity and opening the door to self-acceptance. I’ve been debating for months — no, years — should I get an ADHD diagnosis? Is it worth it? What will I gain? I have so many of the traits, but […]
Are you ADHD masking? Here’s how to tell
We’re becoming ever more aware of conditions such as ADHD and autism, so how have they stayed hidden in plain sight for so long? Rachel Morgan-Trimmer explains. I rushed into the room, sweaty from running, hair all over the place and blurted out one of the myriad excuses I use when I’m late (which is […]
The science of kindness: Why reaching out to a friend makes us both feel happier
In a world that often feels tense and divided, kindness may be one of the most powerful tools we have. Small acts of compassion can reduce stress, improve health and spread happiness far beyond the moment they happen. Some days it can feel as though the world is running on tension. The news cycle moves […]
I let AI into my life — and then I started to doubt my own intelligence
I finally embraced artificial intelligence as a helpful tool. But as AI took over my routine, I began to wonder if it was slowly eroding my trust in my own voice. I’ve worked in film and TV as a writer for the past 20 years, and never have I doubted my own brain as much […]
Why am I always so critical? How to overcome a judgemental mindset
Do you often find yourself being overly critical of strangers? We take a closer look at what downward social comparison is, before exploring how to stop it in its tracks…
I need to be strong for my family — but inside I feel numb
Many people suffering from emotional shutdown feel numb inside while appearing strong. Awareness and presence can restore energy and connection. There is one word I particularly hate: stoic. That stiff-upper-lip idea that we must carry on regardless, whatever happens. And this is probably how emotional withdrawal begins for most of us. It rarely looks dramatic. In […]
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The psychology of adult playtime
Ever found yourself feeling like you simply have no time for fun? Think again, says researcher Brigid Schulte, who argues that making time for play is a serious business that can bring huge benefits
I can’t stop worrying about the news: 10 ways to stop spiralling and manage anxiety
With global tensions in the news — like the US strikes on Iran — it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by anxiety. The constant flow of negative headlines can leave us stuck in a cycle of worry, unable to focus on anything else. So, how can we regain control and manage anxiety? Award-winning coach Kim Morgan, […]
I thought my stress was all in my head — until I noticed I was holding my breath all day long
If you’ve ever been told to ‘just relax’ and found it impossible, the missing piece may not be mindset — but muscle tension, breath and the way your body is holding stress. Discover these ways to calm your body You might think your stress lives in your thoughts. In the email you can’t quite word […]
Why don’t I have more friends? How to create, maintain and enjoy strong companionships
Friendship is a human need, but if you’re hooked on the idea of a group dynamic, you may be seeking the wrong tribe in the wrong place. Emma Reed discovers how belonging can be found without a large posse of pals
Why am I always so critical? How to overcome a judgemental mindset
Do you often find yourself being overly critical of strangers? We take a closer look at what downward social comparison is, before exploring how to stop it in its tracks…
I need to be strong for my family — but inside I feel numb
Many people suffering from emotional shutdown feel numb inside while appearing strong. Awareness and presence can restore energy and connection. There is one word I particularly hate: stoic. That stiff-upper-lip idea that we must carry on regardless, whatever happens. And this is probably how emotional withdrawal begins for most of us. It rarely looks dramatic. In […]
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