‘I thought becoming a mum meant my sex life was over — then I learned what was really getting in the way’
Is becoming a mother incompatible with having a good sex life? We spoke to Sarah Forbes, author of Mama Sex: How a Perfect Storm Created a Revolution, about the challenges mothers face when it comes to keeping intimacy alive. Words: Amy Mica Marsden. Images: Shutterstock It’s a refrain heard time and time again throughout history: […]
Do you know the difference between love and limerance? Learn to spot whether there’s a real spark or just infatuation
When attraction takes hold, it can be all-consuming — but sometimes that attraction can make us feel more insecure than happy. Writer Yasmina Floyer speaks to the experts to find out more about the difference between love and limerence and how to spot the real signs of infatuation. Words: Yasmina Floyer. Images: Shutterstock. It’s easy […]
How to disagree without damaging your relationship: 7 conflict lessons from a peace negotiator
Whether you’re arguing about politics, parenting or money, conflict doesn’t have to end in disconnection. After decades mediating everyone from couples in crisis to parties in international conflict, Gabrielle Rifkind shares seven practical ways to have difficult conversations without making them worse. Most of us don’t struggle to agree. We struggle to disagree. Whether the […]
Why your brain is wired for bad news (and how to break the cycle)
If you often assume the worst, you’re not alone. Psychologists say our brains evolved to focus on danger rather than opportunity. The good news? Optimism isn’t something you’re born with — it’s a skill that anyone can develop. If you’ve ever found yourself imagining the worst-case scenario, worrying about things that haven’t happened or feeling […]
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From travel anxiety to tummy troubles: the gut health habits that could transform your next vacation experience
We asked Dr Megan Rossi, a.k.a. the Gut Health Doctor, to help us embrace the body-brain connection and discover how looking after your gut can lead to a happier overall trip! Words: Sally Saunders. Images: Shutterstock Vacations are something many of us look forward to all year long, but when the time comes it’s natural […]
Feeling left out this summer? Experts say these 5 simple mindset shifts can help you beat FOMO for good
Parties, vacations, festivals and more – watching everyone you know enjoy themselves in summer can leave you feeling down. We asked an expert how to take the pressure off and say goodbye to FOMO. Words: Amy Mica Marsden. Images: Shutterstock. ‘Is everyone having fun but me?’ It’s a question you’ve likely asked yourself at one […]
‘I realised I’d grown apart from my husband – one conversation changed how I saw our future together forever.’
Yoga-mad Jill* feels like she’s pulling against bike-obsessed Kevin. Is it time to end the relationship? Coach Kim Morgan discusses their relationship troubles and offers her solutions if you’re in a similar situation. Words: Kim Morgan. Images: Shutterstock. *Names have been changed Jill was a warm, expressive and confident woman. She had a youthful, ‘boho’ […]
Are you a victim of smartphone procrastination? Increasing numbers of us are, and psychologists say it’s no accident
Think your smartphone is just a harmless distraction? Experts say it’s become the ultimate procrastination tool, offering instant relief whenever work feels difficult — and completely rewiring how we deal with discomfort. If you’ve ever picked up your smartphone to quickly check one notification only to find yourself still scrolling 20 minutes later, you’re not […]
Stuck to the screen? How to help someone with unhealthy phone habits
Whether it’s a teenager glued to social media, an older relative constantly checking notifications or a partner lost in endless scrolling, conversations about screen time can be difficult. Psychologists explain how to raise concerns without judgement — and why understanding the need behind the habit matters most. Problematic phone use can affect people of all […]
Is your phone making you more negative? How screen time can shape your mood
Doomscrolling, social comparison and a constant stream of notifications can subtly influence how we see the world. Experts explain why our digital habits may be affecting our mood, anxiety levels and overall wellbeing more than we realise. Many people worry that spending too much time on their phones leaves them feeling anxious, overwhelmed or emotionally […]
Not all screen time is created equal: How to tell healthy habits from harmful ones
Not every hour spent in front of a screen has the same impact. Psychotherapist Kamalyn Kaur explains why the quality of our screen time matters far more than the quantity — and how to recognise when technology is enriching our lives rather than draining them. For years, “screen time” has been treated as something to […]
How often can you check your phone without being rude? The unwritten, constant evolving rules of modern smartphone use
From reply times to “phubbing”, our relationship with phones is still evolving. Psychotherapist Kamalyn Kaur explains why good screen etiquette isn’t about strict rules, but about protecting attention, relationships and real-world connection. Smartphones have transformed the way we communicate, work and socialise, but the social rules around using them are still catching up. From the […]
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Six friendship red flags psychologists say you shouldn’t ignore
Friendships bring immense joy, but they also come with their own set of challenges. Here, Caroline Butterwick helps us deal with our differences and save our friendships (or let them go).
Free online event: ADHD in children – what to look for and what to do next
The Oxford ADHD & Autism Centre is hosting a free online webinar for parents and carers who want practical, straightforward information about ADHD in children.
People ask me what it’s like to parent a child with ADHD — this is what I tell them
Parenting a child with ADHD or other special educational needs is often a journey filled with self-doubt and isolation. But Olivia Kessel and her daughter’s story shows how understanding the reality of your situation can lead to powerful transformation. “I just wanted her to get dressed without a meltdown,” Dr Olivia Kessel reflects, looking back […]
Why a break up with a friend can hurt as much (or even more) than with a lover
Friendship break-ups are often quiet, gradual and difficult to explain. Therapists say the pain they cause is rooted in our need for connection, while modern life can make those losses harder than ever to escape. The end of a romantic relationship is something most people recognise. There are conversations, expectations and a familiar language for […]
How to disagree without damaging your relationship: 7 conflict lessons from a peace negotiator
Whether you’re arguing about politics, parenting or money, conflict doesn’t have to end in disconnection. After decades mediating everyone from couples in crisis to parties in international conflict, Gabrielle Rifkind shares seven practical ways to have difficult conversations without making them worse. Most of us don’t struggle to agree. We struggle to disagree. Whether the […]
Pain and stiffness are not normal parts of ageing – here are 10 ways to improve your mobility, according to a physiotherapist
Don’t let pain shrink your life – here’s how to stay strong, mobile and pain-free as you age.
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Is it time for a digital detox? Psychologist and Bake Off star Kimberley Wilson explores how to switch off and reconnect with life
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