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Not every ‘work spouse’ is a red flag, but some can be. Learn the warning signs that a workplace friendship is becoming emotionally or physically inappropriate – and what to do next.
Could some narcissism actually be healthy? Experts reveal the 6 surprising traits that could help you thrive
We tend to think of narcissism as entirely negative, but psychologists say there’s a lesser-known side that’s linked to resilience, confidence, and healthier relationships. Here’s how to tell the difference between the two.
The childhood origins of anxiety and depression: understanding where your patterns began
Looking back can help you understand yourself better – and move forward.
5 subtle signs your nervous system is dysregulated – according to a psychotherapist
Waking up exhausted? Butterflies in your tummy? Shoulders up to your ears? Your nervous system might be trying to tell you something.
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Could ‘emotional blindness’ be making life harder than it needs to be? Here’s how to recognise the hidden clues
If you never know what you feel, life can be more complex and frustrating than it needs to be. We asked an expert all about alexithymia (or ‘emotional blindness’) and how to navigate it. Words: Amy Mica Marsden. Images: Shutterstock. It often goes unnoticed, and in fact many people don’t even realise they have it. […]
Snapping at your loved ones? Your nervous system might be trying to tell you something
Feeling more impatient or on edge than usual? Here’s what’s happening in your nervous system.
The rise of ‘narcissism spotting’ – are social media trends misinterpreting normal human behaviour?
‘The rise of narcissism content reflects a genuine desire to understand human behaviour – but we need to be careful not to lose nuance.’
Why slowing down and embracing softness could transform your mental health, relationships and sense of wellbeing this summer
From better relationships to improved wellbeing, Kate Townshend explores why choosing softness isn’t a weakness — it’s a strength. Words: Kate Townshend. Images: Shutterstock. One of my favourite things about summer is its texture. You can walk out into air that feels like a caress rather than a bite. Everyone is slower and lazier, as […]
Sophrology: the mind-body practice designed to regulate your nervous system and combat chronic stress
Struggling with stress? Try this daily method to soothe your nervous system
‘As an FBI profiler, I interviewed serial killers – including the notorious Ed Kemper, who told me he had handed himself in because he knew he couldn’t stop killing.’
Jana Monroe was the first female agent in the world-renowned FBI Behavioral Science Unit and the inspiration for Clarice Starling in The Silence Of The Lambs, even helping to train Jodie Foster for her Oscar-winning role. Here, she shares her experience of interviewing some of the world’s most notorious serial killers. PICS: GETTY IMAGES Walking […]
‘Is my partner having an affair with an AI chatbot?’ – How to deal with emotional infidelity in the time of AI
Could an AI chatbot come between you and your partner? An expert explains when virtual companionship becomes emotional infidelity – and how to respond. Words: Amy Mica Marsden. Images: Shutterstock It’s a scenario straight out of a sci-fi movie: you sense that something is off-balance with your partner, only to discover they’re cheating on you […]
If they look too good to be true, they probably are: The danger signs you might have fallen for a narcissist
They seem perfect: attentive, affectionate and completely devoted to you. But what if that whirlwind romance is hiding something more troubling? Trauma specialist Zoe Clews explains the subtle warning signs that can signal you’re in a narcissistic relationship — and why the people who appear too good to be true sometimes are. Not every intense […]
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The childhood origins of anxiety and depression: understanding where your patterns began
Looking back can help you understand yourself better – and move forward.
Many adults are living with undiagnosed autism without realising it – these are the seven hidden signs experts want you to know
From workplace challenges to social exhaustion, Anne Fletcher explores the subtle traits of autism that can remain hidden for decades before a diagnosis. Words: Anne Fletcher. Images: Shutterstock. I remember the first time I heard about autism. It was the 80s, and Dustin Hoffman was huge. Then he did Rain Man. It took the world […]
It’s not about watching porn or being unfaithful: the truth about sex addiction
Many people labelled “sex addicts” are actually dealing with stress, shame, or compulsive patterns — not sex addiction. Here’s how to tell when sexual behaviour becomes a problem and what to do about it. For many people, sex is one of the most confusing parts of life. Society tells men in particular to be sexual, […]
Early signs you might be a victim of emotional manipulation — that most people miss
Manipulative relationships rarely begin with obvious control. Instead, the warning signs are often subtle, disguised as love, concern or commitment. Discover the behaviours that are easiest to dismiss — and why recognising them early is crucial. No one enters a relationship expecting to be manipulated. Yet emotional control rarely arrives all at once. Instead, it […]
Sophrology: the mind-body practice designed to regulate your nervous system and combat chronic stress
Struggling with stress? Try this daily method to soothe your nervous system
‘I thought my partner’s work wife was harmless – until I noticed these subtle red flags in our relationship’
Not every ‘work spouse’ is a red flag, but some can be. Learn the warning signs that a workplace friendship is becoming emotionally or physically inappropriate – and what to do next.
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