Are narcissists more likely to have affairs? 7 traits that may make them more likely to stray
Trauma specialist Zoe Clews explains the narcissistic traits that may make some people more likely to seek attention outside their relationship – and why cheating isn’t as simple as a personality label.
Guilt vs shame after an affair: What’s the difference?
After an affair, guilt and shame can be overwhelming – but they aren’t the same thing. Understanding the difference can help the person who cheated take responsibility without becoming trapped in self-loathing.
The heartbreaking question betrayed partners can’t help but ask: “What was wrong with me?”
After an affair, the betrayed partner can end up questioning everything from their attractiveness to their judgement. But why does someone else’s betrayal so often become a judgement on ourselves?
Can a relationship recover after an affair? What every betrayed partner needs to consider…
An affair can shatter trust and leave couples wondering if their relationship can ever feel safe again. But what is the work needed to help some couples rebuild?
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How does an affair affect your self-esteem?
An affair can leave you questioning everything from your attractiveness to your judgement. But why does it hit your self-esteem so hard, and how can you stop your partner’s choices from becoming a judgement on your own worth?
Why do people have affairs? The psychology behind infidelity
An affair doesn’t always mean a relationship is unhappy or that someone has fallen out of love. Experts explain the complex mix of personal, emotional and relationship factors that can lead someone to cheat.
Eight red flags your wife might be tempted to have an affair
Could your partner be craving more from the relationship? From feeling undesired to wanting novelty, emotional connection or sexual fulfilment, these can be signs that something needs attention.
Why men need to wise up to menopause: understanding what women go through could transform the workplace
A recent survey revealed just how ill-equipped some male managers are to support menopausal colleagues – so could getting more men into workplace workshops change that?
Are you always early for everything? The psychology behind punctuality – and why it could be fuelling your anxiety
Being on time is generally seen as a positive trait – but if you’re the person who arrives everywhere 20 or 30 minutes early, experts say there could be more going on than simply being organised
Crying more during menopause? Here’s why fear and worry increase in midlife – and how to support your emotional wellbeing
Alongside the physical symptoms, menopause can have a huge impact on your emotions. Here’s how to spot the signs and support yourself through this new stage of life.
‘I thought I had everything I wanted — until one quiet summer afternoon changed the questions I was asking’
When life finally slows down, it’s often the bigger questions that rise to the surface. If you’ve found yourself wondering whether you’re truly happy, a psychologist explains why summer offers the ideal opportunity to reflect on what you really want — and how to start moving towards it.
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Many people labelled “sex addicts” are actually dealing with stress, shame, or compulsive patterns — not sex addiction. Here’s how to tell when sexual behaviour becomes a problem and what to do about it. For many people, sex is one of the most confusing parts of life. Society tells men in particular to be sexual, […]
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From workplace challenges to social exhaustion, Anne Fletcher explores the subtle traits of autism that can remain hidden for decades before a diagnosis. Words: Anne Fletcher. Images: Shutterstock. I remember the first time I heard about autism. It was the 80s, and Dustin Hoffman was huge. Then he did Rain Man. It took the world […]
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Our brains are wired to trust confidence, remember charisma and make quick judgements about people. Here’s why those mental shortcuts can sometimes lead us astray
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